Bada Beta.

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  Bada beta !
        
          Ghar ka bada beta sun ne mai bhi kitna mature lagta hai na, ghar ka bada beta sirf ghar ke liye nahi pure duniya ke liye bada beta hota hai. Bada hona,aapna farz nibhana,farz nibhate nibhate koi galti na karna,galti kar bhi di toh taane sun na yeh sab bade ke hisse mai ata hai. mere sabse favorite author sir ‘Ravinder Singh’ ki 2 lines sach mai mere dil ko chu gayi aur woh thi,

“वो छोटा था, उसके हिस्से में लाड आया।
मैं बड़ा ठहरा, मेरे हिस्से में जि़म्मेदारियाँ।”

          Bas yeh do line mai unhone bada hone ka farz bataya hai. Manta hun papa hi ghar ka boja aapne kandhe pe uthate hai, magar bade bete ka farz bas yahi hai ke jald se jald woh bojh aapne kandhe pe kaise leh. Baki Deshon sa aapna desh nahi joh ladka bade hote dekh ya 18 saal ka hote dekh usse aapni khud ki jimmedari khud pe dal de,hargij humara desh aaisa nahi. 30 saal tak bhi agar beta kuch bhi na kare toh bhi ek baap kandha majbut rakhe usse palta posta hai.
           Beta bada hota dekh sabse jyada khushi kisiko hoti hogi toh woh maa aur papa ko. Iss sansar mai bade bete ka rehen sehen pura jamana gaur karta hai, galti se bhi ek galti ho jaye toh baaton ka bathangad sare log bana dete hai ke ‘Bada hokar aaise karta hai chota kya sikhega tumse’ blah blah.. Kaafi dhyan se chalna padta hai chot bhi lagi toh khudko sambhalna usse ata hai. Chota tha tab maa ke goad mai khelta tha,rota tha, maa ke gaal nochta tha. Bada hone ke baad maa ki goad ko sabse jyada miss karta hai woh bada beta, kabhi rone ko bhi aaye toh woh goad mai rona miss karta hai kyunki aabhi maa usse rota dekh khudko rok nahi payegi rone se fir woh mayus hogi khud bhi dukhi hogi, isi baat se aab uske saamne ro bhi nahi sakta. Aakhir meri vajah se use dukh pauhnche aaisa mujhe kate hii nahi karna aur aakhir yahi baat bada hone pe samjh aati hai, kabhi aapne vajah se koi dukhi na ho jaye, Aur jo beta bahr ke logon ki itna sochta hoga woh kaise aapne maa papa ko koi dukh dega.
           “Beta bada ho gaya kaafi samjh aagayi hai usme” yeh kayi baar aapne sunte dekha hoga bas isi baat ka khayal har waqt uus bade bete ko rakhna padta hai. Sabse jyada rahat toh bas papa ko hee milti hogi beta bada hone pe. Unke toh man mai boht saari baatein, boht sari umeedein chupi rehti hai. Aapne bete se bas kabhi baya nahi karte magr bade bete ko unki saari baatein samjh aati hai usse sab pata hota hai papa kya chate hai,kya nahi chahte. Aab bada toh ho gaya aapna education bhi pura kar diya, job lagegi ya nahi yeh sab baatein usse satati rehti hai, kyunki jald se jald aapne ghar ka gaada woh chalana chata hai aapne maa-Papa ko jladi se aaram mile, “bas aap ghar pr raho aaur khush raho” yeh baat batane ke liye jujta rehta hai .Koi aasan Kam nahi hota ek beta hona aaur usse bhi jyada bada beta hona. Kabhi kabhi maar bhi diya chote ko toh chupke se khuko bhi ek thappad lagata hai aaur baar baar khudko yaad dilata hai aapne ‘farz’ aur aapni ‘jimmedariyan’.
           kyun chote ko maine mara,yahi sikh dega kya usse yeh baat bol kr khudko har dam kosta rehta hai. Gusaa bhi aapne control mai rakhna woh sikh jata hai. Kyunki jo bada karega wahi chota sikhega. Ek baar aaise hee papa ko puch liya ke “Papa kaise lagta hai jaab aapna beta aapne aankho ke samne bada hote dekh” papa ne bade aaram se ek baat boli woh baat shayad jo bade padh rahe hai unhe kayi baar sunne ko mili hogi ke “Aaj tak beta tujhe bade pyaar se pala posa magar shaadi ke baad hume yun akela mat chodhna varna biwi ki baaton mai aakr hume ghar se nikal doge”, Yeh baat aaksar beton ke man mai uchalti rehti hai aaur yahi ek vajah hoti hai joh shaadi karne se
dar lagta hai. Aap samjh gaye honge. Kabhi papa chilla bhi de to shaant rehta hai aur akele mai fut-fut ke rota hai. Bas aab yeh last.
         Bas ek baat ke liye hee beta puri jindagi jujta rehta hai aur woh yeh ke kaash woh din jarur aaye jab papa aur maa mere pith pe thap thapaye aaur kahe ke beta 
“I am proud of you”.

                         
                                       - Nilesh A Ingawale
Location: Kalamboli, Panvel, Navi Mumbai, Maharashtra, India

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